Just about everybody is guilty of this..
Now guys, this post is tailored for women, but it is suited for everyone. I encourage everyone to read and be informed because you may have a cousin, sibling, nephew, niece, aunt, uncle, friend, etc. that knows that they are being strung along, but haven’t done anything about it. By the end of this post, you will have done a self examination as it relates to being strung along and stringing someone else along. Please don’t stop reading until the end. This is a topic that forever tugs at my heart and I know someone can be changed as a result of my obedience to share.
I don’t like too many guys, I’m often too caught up into my self and my personal growth. I find many physically attractive, but that’s it, not enough to hold my attention mentally. There has only been one guy. He pursued me for a very long time. He was sweet, had a certain charm and charisma, but I wasn’t really interested. He was attractive, physically and mentally. He smelled good, and could make me laugh, that’s important. He was intelligent and had a future, not really figured out fully, nevertheless he was on the right path. He would keep trying to pursue me, without me giving too much of a budge. Then there finally came a time where all I wanted to do was talk to him, be with him, be up under him. If my family had dinner, I wanted him present too. There was nothing that I wouldn’t do for him, he finally had me stuck at hello and dreading the day that we said good bye. He no longer exist, and I’m back to square one. Guys are just guys, they’re cool from time to time, but no one will ever have my full attention again, unless it’s a him!